Creating Boundaries to Heal

Dear Beloveds,
Boundaries have been talked about for a long time and many of us have learned to set them and honor them with others…and yet it is only recently that I saw the greater benefit of them in a personal growth sense.

When we set boundaries we are creating sacred space for ourselves.

We are generating space where we can be vulnerable and open, where we can work on our inner selves without the interference from inappropriate people or interactions.

By creating this environment for ourselves we can step into the gift of vulnerability, of softness, and of personal exploration.

There must be safety to keep our hearts open.

There must be a place to securely retreat inside in order to do the work with our pain, to heal wounds, and to open our hearts to ourselves and others.

Without this place, the work cannot be done, without it, we cannot be seen and loved as we muddle through changing patterns and ways of being that are harmful to ourselves and others.

It takes great bravery and openness to truly address and heal our brokenness. It takes leaning into the pain, befriending those parts of ourselves, and loving them into something new.

Indeed boundaries may seem to be fairly simple and yet truly they can be the deciding factor in our healing.

As you look around your world, ask yourself:

Do the people closest to me protect and honor my vulnerability?
Do I provide myself an environment to be present with my pain?
Do my people honor the work I am doing with myself?
Do my people honor my ways of being that are different, that are my truest self?

In answering these questions you can further pursue creating your sacred environment, your boundaries, and protected safe place to live and grow from.

In this channeling Kristina's Guide Iliana speaks about grounding to the Earth Star Chakra and healing Mother Earth.

In this channeling, Iliana speaks about choosing your perspective and befriending difficulty.